I had never been to a mortuary to plan the funeral of anyone.
|Their wedding day, December 13, 1997.|
You set the date and immediately jump into making decisions.
Tiffany made those decisions with a graceful ease.
Tiffany somehow knew which flowers to choose ... And going from casket to casket, the moment she saw a specific one, she just knew that it was the one.
She even knew which decisions not to make there, as none of program templates conveyed what was needed to be conveyed.
At one point, someone asked her about a specific detail, "Well, what would Steve like?"
Her response, "He just loved whatever I loved."
And it was true. That
was IS one of the beauties of their marriage and relationship, he was just so happy, making her happy. He truly loved whatever she loved.
I love the way those two love each other. It has been one of my greatest blessings in this life to be a witness to it. It has been beautiful to see that love continue to manifest itself from both sides of the veil ... a love for all time and eternity, something Steve would refer to as, "Best.phrase.ever." And, oh isn't he right!